The Transformation of Lady Young

This is a copyrighted 2300 word account of how Rose Mary Young ("Lady Young") got into quite a pickle when she was in Trinidad during WWII. In addition I have provided here links to source material, the Red Cross Committee, Lady Young's letter of March 10, 1940 and Sir Hubert Young's letter of July 3, 1940. I would be very eager to correspond with anyone who is interested in this period of Trinidad's history. I can be reached at [email protected]. Thanks.
Kevin Burke, Cambridge, Massachusetts
When I arrived in Trinidad for the first time I immediately got a good feeling about Lady Young, based on nothing more than driving up the roadway that bears her name in back of the Hilton Hotel. (That scenic overlook! I thought I was in the south of France!)
I figured Lady Young must have been the wife of a colonial governor and in that regard I was correct – she was the wife of Sir Hubert Young who is remembered in Trinidad today as the man who suspended carnival during World War II. In my mind I pictured her as a model of feminine delicacy – hosting a tea party, cutting a ceremonial ribbon, all smiles – but in this regard I was much mistaken. In reality she was a tall, strapping woman who had earned a reputation as a daring aviatrix in her previous posting in Northern Rhodesia (now Zambia). Also – she was not at all ladylike. In her four years in Trinidad she showed herself to be fearsome, self-important, and, like her husband, a bit of a bully.
Sir Hubert was brought to Trinidad in 1938 to deal with the labour unrest that resulted in bloody riots the year before – twelve people shot dead by police. The Colonial Office felt he was just the man to take charge because of his earlier success in breaking a strike by copper miners in Northern Rhodesia. His reputation preceded him to Trinidad. Prior to his arrival, labour leaders, led by Capt. A.A. Cipriani, marched through the streets of Port of Spain with signs reading, “WARM WELCOME SIR ‘HITLER’ YOUNG”, “BREAD, NOT BULLETS” and “TRINIDAD IS NOT RHODESIA”.
It was against this ominous backdrop that Lady Young set about creating new lines of discontent based on the prickliness of her own personality. She quickly came to feel unappreciated, even rejected, by her own people – the white British establishment. Her paranoia mounted and finally on 10th March, 1940 she snapped. Dipping her pen in bile she dashed off a letter to the Secretary of State for the Colonies, Malcolm McDonald, a letter so ill advised and harmful to her own cause that I suspect she was in an altered state when she wrote it.
The letter began this way:
“Unfortunately as you know matters have not improved. It is all too stupid and in the middle of a War, or arising out of a War is too deplorable. Unfortunately also, nothing much that we can do will mend matters, as these people and the whole section – a small and vehement one they come from, have not even had manners they have no conception of manners, loyalty, or any other civilized virtue. They simply don’t live in the same box as ordinary human beings, one cannot calculate what any of their reactions are; they are as strange and remote morally as the Africans and low Caste Indians who have, as everything tends to sink, – much influenced the whole trend of life in these islands.”
OOF! When I first came across this quotation (in a book) there was no context. I wondered – what “matters” was she talking about? Who were “these people”? I assumed she must have been referring to anti-colonial activists like Capt. Cipriani and Albert Gomes – her natural adversaries. But no. It turned out her chief nemesis was the doyenne of Trinidadian society, an Anglo/Scottish woman named Martha Eunice Simpson. Her family owned the immensely valuable Aranguez Estate in San Juan. Her father had been mayor of Port of Spain.
The vendetta between Lady Young and Mrs Simpson began innocently enough. In the summer of 1939 Lady Young founded a chapter of the Red Cross Society in Trinidad and with great fanfare installed herself as its president. As was her wont, Lady Young demanded total deference from everyone in the exercise of her pet project.
About a month later the war broke out. Mrs Simpson quickly recruited four of her friends and formed a group, calling it the “Ladies’ Shirt Guild” whose purpose was to make articles of clothing for the war relief effort. (She had done the same thing during WWI.) Critically, Lady Young was in Tobago at the time and knew nothing about it. The guild members were some of the most prominent women in the colony, including Dora Gilchrist and Edna Gordon. Dora was the wife of Trinidad’s chief justice, Edna a member of the fabulously wealthy Gordon clan. As a leading historian has pointed out, ladies of this social class “did no housework, never marketed, and rarely cooked.”
But, in times of trouble, they sewed. On 22nd September Mrs Simpson wrote directly to Queen Elizabeth offering to send articles of clothing to Buckingham Palace and received an enthusiastic reply. This was big news in Port of Spain as it was whenever the royal family took notice of Trinidad. On 5th November the TRINIDAD GUARDIAN printed the letter from the Palace under the headline: “THE QUEEN THANKS TRINIDAD CLUB”. In boldface below was Mrs Simpson’s name.
When Lady Young saw this she went ballistic. Mrs Simpson and her informal group had stolen the spotlight away from her and the Red Cross! It was a situation that required tact and persuasion, but Lady Young preferred steamroller tactics. At a meeting at Government House on 9th November, 1939 Lady Young, accompanied by her husband, berated Mrs Simpson for writing to the queen behind her back and tried to browbeat her into quitting the guild and falling into line with the Red Cross relief effort.
This heavy-handed approach only served to stiffen Mrs Simpson’s spine. She wouldn’t back down. On 14th November, making no mention of the Red Cross or Lady Young, she sent two packing cases to Buckingham Palace, filled with “shirts, pyjamas, bedsocks, pads, splints, nightingales, scarves & pullovers.”
Governor Young called it an “act of defiance.” Indeed, Trinidad was not Rhodesia.
What began as a folie à deux entered a new phase with the husbands, Sir Hubert Young, KCMG, DSO and Major G.H. Simpson, OBE, entering the ring, tag-team style, to take up the fight in defence of their wives. Over the next two months the two men locked horns and demanded concessions and “withdrawals” from each other. Forgotten was the war relief effort. It became simply a grudge match, a battle of wills. In an earlier day they would have settled it with pistols at thirty paces.
To use Lady Young’s term, yes, it was all “too stupid”. The only reason to mention it today is to shed light on a dynamic that is not well known – the tension that existed between the white elite and the governor, not just Hubert Young, but all governors. As Sir Hubert put it:
“[T]he Simpson episode is not an isolated incident, or a question merely of discourtesy shown by a local lady and her husband to my wife and myself, but a symptom of a state of affairs in this Colony which has done incalculable harm in the past . . . There are in this Colony certain disaffected persons who are always on the look-out for an opportunity to take up an attitude of antagonism to the Governor . . . These are the people whose malicious unkindness to officials from overseas and their wives is a well known feature of social life in Trinidad.”
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In early 1940 there came a major escalation of the dispute when the Simpsons decided to petition the Secretary of State for the Colonies for redress of their grievances, laying out the whole affair from their point of view. Governor and Lady Young rebutted the charges with their own version of events. It was against this backdrop of pettiness and spitefulness that Lady Young penned her infamous letter of 10th March.
The letter was a ghastly mistake on several counts. For one thing, although it was marked “private and personal,” the letter was widely shared in the Colonial Office – to the shock and alarm of everyone. Under Secretary of State W.B.L. Monson rushed to keep his boss from being pulled into the quagmire: “I feel that no comment on the substance of the letter can be made by the S. of S.”, he wrote on 15th April. The following day Asst. Secretary Harold Beckett spoke for the entire office when he wrote in his minutes:
“The fact that this is just an hysterical outburst must not blind us to the fact that Lady Young is saying what she really thinks. It does not make a very good mental background for anybody occupying the position of ‘lady’ of a West Indian (or indeed any other) Governor.”
As time dragged on with no response from Downing St., Governor and Lady Young realised their support was slipping away. They became completely unhinged. On 3rd July, 1940 Sir Hubert wrote, in a desperate letter to the Secretary of State, “They [the Simpsons] indulge in every form of slander and misrepresentation and also in victimisation and intimidation in some of their vilest forms.” Mrs Simpson’s entire family was “eccentric, self-willed, and well known for their intolerant attitude.” As for the tempest in a teapot created by his wife, he tried to inflate it into “an official matter of paramount importance to the successful prosecution of the war.” He even came up with a novel two-part theory to explain why Mrs Simpson had snubbed the Red Cross in the first place – first, jealousy (Mrs Simpson was supposedly “piqued” that she had not been appointed to the executive committee) and secondly, racial prejudice (she felt the Red Cross Society was “undesirably mixed” in terms of skin colour.) The latter charge was a real head-scratcher – of the twenty-nine people on the executive committee, twenty-seven were white and two were Indian.
Finally, on 13th August, 1940 – almost a full year after the formation of the Ladies’ Shirt Guild – the Secretary of State for the Colonies informed Governor Young that Mrs Simpson had been cleared by the Queen of any wrongdoing by writing to offer her assistance. It was a near total victory for the Simpsons and a stunning letdown for Governor and Lady Young.
Somehow – hard to figure – Sir Hubert was allowed to remain in his post. What happened next, though, could not be abided – his refusal to go along with the occupation of the island by U.S. military forces in 1941. For example, when the U.S. Navy proposed Chaguaramas as the site of its operating base, Sir Hubert argued for another location – the Caroni swamp. (We all know how that worked out.) In early 1942 the Colonial Office recalled him to London, citing “ill health” as the reason. A bully had been out-bullied.
As the Youngs were packing their bags, an ambitious plan was being floated for a new highway connecting the roundabout in St. Ann’s with the Eastern Main Rd. Although a name was not really necessary at that point, it was announced that the roadway would be named for the wife of the departing governor. Perhaps it was in recognition of all the abuse she had suffered. As a GUARDIAN editorial put it, “Firm, untiring, and constant, Lady Young has been a source of strength in the midst of many perplexities.” Many, to be sure.
Lady Young’s last day in Trinidad was 2nd April, 1942. As she walked to a waiting seaplane a photographer snapped a photo. On the left Governor Young looked like a cartoon version of a British colonial official – complete with bowler hat and walking stick. In the middle was Molly Huggins, wife of the Colonial Secretary, who seemed to be enjoying herself. On the right Lady Young was captured arching her back and clutching a briefcase. She appeared to be glowering at the photographer.
Before she got on the plane she was quoted as saying she “hoped that they might return one day on holiday,” but of course she had no intention of doing so. She hated Trinidad. Although she lived for another thirty-nine years she never set foot in Trinidad again.
The right time to return would have been on 3rd June, 1959 – the day the Lady Young Road was opened to motor traffic. It had taken seventeen years of digging and delay to create a paved path through the rugged terrain. In that period Trinidad had changed utterly. The power of the royally appointed governor had faded almost to nothing. A new group, the People’s National Movement, had won a majority in the legislative council. Mrs Simpson, whose family had enjoyed preferred seating in Trinidad for over a hundred years, pulled up her stakes and moved to South Africa. People barely remembered the tart-tongued lady who founded the Red Cross.
With the opening of the road, the term ‘Lady Young’ took on a new meaning that was kind of hard to describe. GUARDIAN staff writer Carl Jacobs (later editor) tried to explain it this way on 5th June, 1959, “long before Wednesday’s opening, the project had attained a secret glamour that might well have converted the name of Lady Young into an abundantly fascinating personality.” And so it was – ‘Lady Young’ was transformed into an eponymous ribbon of road and a disembodied presence that replaced the memory of a flesh and blood woman who wanted to have everything done her way.

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